Sister-In-Law

[Tony Montana]

Ok. I'm off to work, but tonight I'll write a reasoned reply.

Never did get your response Laz?

Although, thanks to the other guys for their input. It does help to have different opinions, even if they are bit of a wake up call. Having said that, she TXT'd me last night and wants to know if I could give her a lift home on Saturday night. She's going out to dinner and reckons she'll be ready to go home at about the same time I knock off work which is also in the CBD. I said "OK".

[Lazarus]

So, my wife is 29yo and has stacked it on over recent years she probably weighs the same as me (98kg). TBH I was never really attracted to her "hotness" or body anyway, she just had heaps of other qualities that I was attracted to. One thing led to another and before you know it, here we are married with baby and living the family life.

Now, here is where it gets interesting. Her sister is HOT, a real sexy little thing. 21yo, 50kgs and sexy as! When ever we go to her house and my wife leaves the room, goes to toilet or whatever, the sister always manages to find her way onto my lap. Now, I'm sure she is just being friendly but I'm easily, ummm "excited" so I normally bar up pretty quickly. To avoid embarrassment I'll make an excuse to get up and get a drink, or do something to get her off my lap before she gets impaled on my raging rajah.

Anyway, on Christmas Day, she sat on my lap and I didn't get up. I just sat there - she sat there. I got hard in about 0.06 seconds and I don't why but I gave the old fella bit of a "throb" and she felt it against her ass. I could tell by the way she practically grinded herself back onto it that she knew it was there. My wife comes back into the room and makes a light hearted comment about us two sitting there and the little sister says "Don't be a sicko, he's the big brother I always wanted". She hopped off, smilled and slinked away leaving me with an uncomfortably massive FAT in my pants!

On New Years Eve we were house sitting for her as she was going out with her friends. My wife went out to pick up Pizza and the sister came out of the shower with just a towel around her and asked if I could rub moisturiser on her back. She sat on the edge of the lounge with her back to me, opened her towel, holding it against her chest and lent forward so I could rub this shit on her. I could see her ass crack and everything - IT WAS AWESOME. Obviously I got a tremendously hard stiffy. She then said something like "I couldn't ask just anyone to do this but you're like a brother so I don't mind".

When I was all done, she stood up reveleaing her totally tanned and naked back, ass and legs, and said "thanks" she looked back at me just as I was trying to "adjust" myself into a less dick breaking position. She giggled, looked down at my crotch and trotted off to get ready for her big night out. Soon after the wife arrives back and all's good.

So what is the go with this? She is hot and out of my league. How far would it go? Is she just an attention seeking whore? Is it just some sisterly rivalry thing going on? Does she really mean the "like a brother" comments? And if she does mean the "brother" comments, am I a total SICKO for having a sly wank this morning whilst totaly fixated on the "New Years Eve Moisturiser Incident"?

Ok, sorry for the delay, but I wasn't going to reply to this post or the thread. However.....

My initial impression was that the purpose of this post was to seek permission to sleep with this girl. If enough guys here say "go for it" then you're justified in committing adultery. My feeling is that you already know where you're going with this before you posted, although I hope I'm wrong.

Your opening paragraph is worrying: again, a sort of justification theme. She's gained weight, yada yada .... so what? As you said, you wern't atracted to her "hotness", yet now you are using her weight gain as some sort of justification for you.

You then go on to talk about her sitting on your lap, something which appears to happen frequently. At the point of the first erection, should have been the time you told her to stop. Her behaviour is just as inappropriate as yours.

She is playing a very dangerous game with her sister's husband and needs to be put in her place too. Surely you must see the calamity that doing anything with this kid will bring? If you don't want to be married, and being married means being faithful, then divorce your wife and fuck anything you want. But to play this sort of game with your sister-in-law is bordering on Jerry Springer.

The responses in this thread are to be expected. But you need to be asking yourself are you going to faithful to your wife or not? How would you react if your wife fucked your brother? and although you haven/t slept with her yet, you might as well have.

The fact that you posted this at all causes me the most concern. How you can't see how wrong all this is on any level is beyond me. Can you not see the Pandora's Box opening? Is this the sort of hurt you want to inflict on your wife and child? Because she will find out, that is for certain.

If you go down, what seems an inevitable path, you are going to open up a world of pain and suffering. Is that what you want for your wife? As for the sister? She needs a good kick in the arse. Playing these sorts of games with an in-law is beyond dispicable.

Laz.

[Lazarus]

Never did get your response Laz?

Although, thanks to the other guys for their input. It does help to have different opinions, even if they are bit of a wake up call. Having said that, she TXT'd me last night and wants to know if I could give her a lift home on Saturday night. She's going out to dinner and reckons she'll be ready to go home at about the same time I knock off work which is also in the CBD. I said "OK".

And she will push you to the edge. Are you ready to put your marriage on the line?

[O.N.]

You will also have the question being asked by your daughter in about 4-5 years asking "why doesn't daddy live with us mum?" to which she can choose to answer how she wishes.

[plexus]

Or even better "Why doesn't mummy live with us Daddy?" CAUSE UR MUM WAS A FATWHORE BITCHSLUT...

There's always two sides to every story. Some women drive their husbands up the path of betrayal and leave them no choice but to stay. Sometimes men stay for the children, and if a marriage is already just like two-people living together rather than a marriage, then who cares if someone is cheating..

[Lazarus]

Or even better "Why doesn't mummy live with us Daddy?" CAUSE UR MUM WAS A FATWHORE BITCHSLUT...

There's always two sides to every story. Some women drive their husbands up the path of betrayal and leave them no choice but to stay. Sometimes men stay for the children, and if a marriage is already just like two-people living together rather than a marriage, then who cares if someone is cheating..

Mate, at what point did the OP say he was being driven to anything? or that the marriage was just "two people living together"? Fuck me dead. Cheating is cheating. Full stop. If he wants to root someone else, get divorced, move out, grow a set, but FFS don't root the sister-in-law while still married.

[micksnowdog]

well thats like a handful of ice in the jocks now

[RF1964]

I'm glad to see someone speaking sense on this thread. Well said Laz.

[Lazarus]

I'm glad to see someone speaking sense on this thread. Well said Laz.

Thanks. I'm been down this path and let me tell you, the pain for everyone is simply not worth it.

[micksnowdog]

do tell laz, you fucked your sister in law?

[plexus]

At the end of the day Laz. We don't know the situation, nor do we know what he decided to put in, or leave out of the story. I'm leaving the doors open for ideas to flow back and forth until such time as the bouncer comes and sets the terms.

Regardless of whether you actually understand it or agree with it - Some people do get stuck in a marriage that either they can't get out of, or don't want to get out of for various reasons. Cheating is only one of many "marriage breakers", many of which could have already been committed by the wife. A relationship can be over long before anyone cheats.

I have a few friends going through some tough battles at the moment, and one or two unable to leave their husband, or wife, for various reasons. So just because you can't leave, doesn't mean you still have to stay faithful. Fuck that.

[Lazarus]

At the end of the day Laz. We don't know the situation, nor do we know what he decided to put in, or leave out of the story. I'm leaving the doors open for ideas to flow back and forth until such time as the bouncer comes and sets the terms.

Regardless of whether you actually understand it or agree with it - Some people do get stuck in a marriage that either they can't get out of, or don't want to get out of for various reasons. Cheating is only one of many "marriage breakers", many of which could have already been committed by the wife. A relationship can be over long before anyone cheats.

I have a few friends going through some tough battles at the moment, and one or two unable to leave their husband, or wife, for various reasons. So just because you can't leave, doesn't mean you still have to stay faithful. Fuck that.

Yes, all that is fair comment, but I can only respond to what was posted. To try to speculate on what was or wasn't included is pointless.

Anyway, I'm out of this thread. I didn't want to reply to start with. I suspect that short-term satisfaction and testosterone will win out in this debate and if people think that based on what was originally written, that having any sort of sexual relationship with the sister is a good idea then I'm sorry, but my respect for the collective here drops.

Regardless of what the wife may or may not have contributed, when you take a marriage vow you either take it and be fair dinkum, or if you get an itchy cock then get out of the marriage.

Cheers

[RF1964]

Plexus, I don't mean to be rude but people can always get out of a relationship. They find excuses not to. To condone cheating for this reason is a cop out. What they are saying is that they are to lazy or to scared to be on their own. I'm not judging Tony or you but I think that people need to realize that there are consequences to their actions, something that few people do until it's to late.

[plexus]

I'm not condoning cheating. If it's a case of "Itchy Cock" like Laz said; it's fairly simple and i think anyone would recognise it. We know it's wrong. Simple.

There are many situations where people are unfortunately LOCKED into their marriage, at least for a time until they can get out. For one - Women who are being abused. Their marriage is as good as over, so are you saying they shouldn't "Cheat" because they still have a marriage certificate and haven't legally divorced? You can't imagine how a woman who is being physically and s3xually abused feels with children and a husband who threatens to kill her if she ever leaves. It's not so simple to just leave, it takes time. I would never tell her that cheating is wrong, because her marriage is already over anyway.

If you can't understand this then you've thankfully had a very good life, and known some very lucky people.

What happened before computers? Before the government held a Marriage register? When people just got married, and the boundaries of marriage sat between the equal boundaries of their relationship?

[Lazarus]

I'm not condoning cheating. If it's a case of "Itchy Cock" like Laz said; it's fairly simple and i think anyone would recognise it. We know it's wrong. Simple.

There are many situations where people are unfortunately LOCKED into their marriage, at least for a time until they can get out. For one - Women who are being abused. Their marriage is as good as over, so are you saying they shouldn't "Cheat" because they still have a marriage certificate and haven't legally divorced? You can't imagine how a woman who is being physically and s3xually abused feels with children and a husband who threatens to kill her if she ever leaves. It's not so simple to just leave, it takes time. I would never tell her that cheating is wrong, because her marriage is already over anyway.

If you can't understand this then you've thankfully had a very good life, and known some very lucky people.

What happened before computers? Before the government held a Marriage register? When people just got married, and the boundaries of marriage sat between the equal boundaries of their relationship?

Mate, all well and good but that is NOT what this thread is about.

You think a woman who is trapped in an abusive relationship is going to cheat? You can't be serious.

At the end of the day, there is NO reason why a woman, or man, can't leave. The sensation of being trapped is mental, not real.

Again, not what this thread is about.

[micksnowdog]

"What happened before computers? Before the government held a Marriage register? When people just got married, and the boundaries of marriage sat between the equal boundaries of their relationship?"

christianity.
religion is dieing, nobody gives a fuck anymore.
in the western world anyways.

in some ways its a move for the better in some ways it is not.

[Lazarus]

"What happened before computers? Before the government held a Marriage register? When people just got married, and the boundaries of marriage sat between the equal boundaries of their relationship?"

christianity.
religion is dieing, nobody gives a fuck anymore.
in the western world anyways.

in some ways its a move for the better in some ways it is not.

religion is actually growing around the world, but again, not our point here.

[micksnowdog]

you know what i'm getting at laz, christian ideals and morality. christianity has got to be dieing and particularly in the western world. the muslim faith i would believe is growing.

anyhow laz did you bang your sister in law?

[Lazarus]

you know what i'm getting at laz, christian ideals and morality. christianity has got to be dieing and particularly in the western world. the muslim faith i would believe is growing.

anyhow laz did you bang your sister in law?

Mick, all religions would be against this, not just christianity. But that aside, no I didn't hit my sister-in-law, but I've been through a similar circumstance and the results were terrible.

There really should be no debate about this.

The younger sister is playing a stupid and dangerous game;
To contemplate having any form of physical relationship with her is as good as adultery;
The purpose of the original post, IMO only, was to seek tacit approval;
The wife will be bitterly hurt when, and I stress, WHEN she finds out.

Seriously, is a fuck with a young hottie worth that much pain and suffering? If it is, then we are no better than animals.

In my experience? The pain, which lasts for a very long time, is simply not worth it. Grow a set, tell the wife, leave home, root whomever you want, guilt-free.

[Lazarus]

you know what i'm getting at laz, christian ideals and morality. christianity has got to be dieing and particularly in the western world. the muslim faith i would believe is growing.
anyhow laz did you bang your sister in law?

Christianity is booming in countries like Africa. There are more ordained ministers per head of population than almost anywhere else.

Fundamentalism, yes, based on a christian theism, is booming also.

Spiritualism, is also booming.

These are all forms of religious expression/organistion.